My boyfriend has been on dating websites
No need to be reactive especially when he’s not really active on there.
This may also be a sign to you that you are a lot more invested into him than he is into you.
Rather than seeing where your relationship would go over time, you tried to catch him, and you did. Having an active profile on Tinder when you’re in a relationship tells the world that you’re single and looking.
found that that 42 percent of Tinder’s members are already in relationships. Almost half of the users are playing around on Tinder. From your boyfriend’s perspective, he thought he was single and was keeping his options open.
The problem Nina is something’s off in your relationship. If you trusted him, you wouldn’t have created a fake profile after two months.
You know that a relationship is based on mutual trust. I can’t tell you to break up with someone if you think he’s your soulmate. So you can continue to be quiet and log onto your fake profile to see the exact moment he last logged on and make yourself sick in the process, or try to find someone who will think you’re amazing enough to ditch the dating apps to be in your arms. I can only hope that you take your fake profile down and never create another one to try to snoop on a guy you really like.
Something is also wrong in your relationship if you feel you need to check up on him. I can’t say if it’s a deal breaker for you, but as soon as you tell him you’ve busted him with a fake Tinder profile, or make up a white lie and say that someone found him on Tinder, I guarantee he will break up with you.
I am not on a dating site, even though it appears I am. So before your analyzing mind goes into overdrive, make sure that he is actually active and doesn’t just have some dormant profile up there.
When you find your boyfriend is still on a dating site, you have two choices really.
I’m not sure if you met on Tinder and if you took your profile down and he didn’t, but at two months, he probably wasn’t ready to be exclusive, or he would have said so.
When a man wants a woman to be his, he does what it takes to make her is girlfriend.